Faculty Member

Gary Dillon

Gary Dillon

Gary Dillon MA has studied psychology, theology, and movement therapy, with an emphasis on Esalen massage and Hawaiian shamanic bodywork. He has wide experience in Taoist and Western esoteric transformations of Eros and offers a renewed and modern vision of sexuality and spirituality moving together. He co-leads Eros and Intimacy, Sex and Spirit for Couples with his wife Elfi Dillon-Shaw, and teaches internationally.

Website: Heart Core Touch

Events with Gary Dillon

Sexual Intelligence
May 16 - 19, 2025

This is a dynamic Haven program that teaches erotic literacy for body, mind and heart  Do you experience anxiety, heartache, confusion or apathy connected with sexuality and relationships?  Do you want to learn erotic skills for enhanced arousal and orgasmic states as well as clarity, communication and connection?  This program teaches erotic literacy for body, mind and heart through surrendering to the ocean of erotic energy within. It demonstrates how we can steer our sexuality with erotic honesty in community and in our partnerships.  This program is for people of all genders and orientations who would like to:   Address and…

Sexual Intelligence
October 2 - 5, 2025

This is a dynamic Haven program that teaches erotic literacy for body, mind and heart  Do you experience anxiety, heartache, confusion or apathy connected with sexuality and relationships?  Do you want to learn erotic skills for enhanced arousal and orgasmic states as well as clarity, communication and connection?  This program teaches erotic literacy for body, mind and heart through surrendering to the ocean of erotic energy within. It demonstrates how we can steer our sexuality with erotic honesty in community and in our partnerships.  The program is for people of all genders and orientations who would like to:   Address and…