Programs

  • CAD $188.00 – 課程費用 Program Price

Date & Time Details: 太平洋時間 PT
6月18日,星期五,7-9 pm PT
6月19日,星期六,7-9 pm PT
6月25日,星期五,7-9 pm PT
6月26日,星期六,7-9 pm PT

In Pacific Time  
June 18, Fri. 7-9 pm PT
June 19, Sat. 7-9pm PT
June 25, Fri. 7-9 pm PT
June 26, Sat. 7-9pm PT

中國標準時間 CST
6月19日,星期六,10 am-12 pm CST
6月20日,星期日,10 am-12 pm CST
6月26日,星期六,10 am-12 pm CST
6月27日,星期日,10 am-12 pm CST

In China Standard Time
June 19, Sat. 10am-12 pm PT
June 20, Sun. 10am-12pm PT
June 26, Sat. 10am-12 pm PT
June 27, Sun. 10am-12 pm PT

Contact:
Wen-Shwu Lee, wenshwu@pptrain.com OR Haven Registrars, register@haven.ca

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双语 | Bilingual: 愛神與親密 Eros & Intimacy

With 艾爾菲 Elfi Dillon-Shaw and 李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee 

June 18 - 27, 2021

 

愛神與親密: 啓動生命的原創力

Eros and Intimacy: Connecting with Your Creative Life Force

[English Description follows]

讓生命充滿活力與趣味

愛神(愛洛斯)的力量,或者説:生命的能量,也就是創造的力量,讓我們與生命活水和大自然連結。這股力量在我們的身體內不斷循環,也讓我們相互吸引,我們每一個人的生命也因著倆人的愛神之舞而誕生!

人際關係中,愛神(愛洛斯)的能量常會造成我們之間的誤解、困擾、羞愧,和罪惡感。但是,如果我們能學習把心敞開,深入了解愛神的智慧與能量,誏這股能量在我們的生命和人際關係中不斷循環,我們就能打開我們的感官知覺,無論是和自己獨處,或是與他人同在,我們能夠學習全然地活在生命的喜悅中。在我們了解和分享愛神的智慧時,我們也學習擁抱脆弱並且真實存在。

在這個充滿冒險的精彩課程中,我們邀請您一起來學習,如何滋養並連結愛神的能量。假設您有伴侶,您也可以練習如何將這些美妙的經驗與您的伴侶分享。經由身心合一的體驗,分享對話,以及自我省思,期待大家都有機會一起洞見連結愛神能量與靈性經驗的新視野。

在大多數恩愛的伴侶間,愛神的能量有時候也會如潮水般的消退;在關係中這可能會帶來苦痛和誤解。課程中我們會一起來探索如何不是以羞愧,而是用一顆誠摯並充滿愛的心來溝通我們逐漸消退的愛神能量。

每次的課程將以不同的焦點來深入我們的主題「愛神與親密」,我們邀請學員在課程與課程間持續地反思落實所學。課中所有的探索練習也將尊重個人不同的選擇以及尊重界限的方式進行。課程的形式包括:

  • 身心合一的靜心冥想
  • 愛神和親密主題簡報
  • 創意與經驗式的學習
  • 小組分享與自我省思
  • 回家作業的落地實習

 

課程主題與重點

  • 活在愛洛斯能量大海中的七個元素:情境背景、感官知覺、物化的性感、親密連結、性別認同、全人健康,靈性價值。
  • 在感官知覺中的生命甦醒
  • 性感能量與角色物化:性感與權力的關係,浪漫過後的愛神探索
  • 親密連結:關係中的愛神之舞,渴望安定與渴望新奇的對立與包容,從權力邁向連結
  • 全人健康:身體的、靈性的、以及關係的,性別角色,靈性價值

 

課程形式

這是中英文的双語課程!現場有中文翻譯,學員有機會提問、互動、討論,我們也會用分組討論的方式進行小組互動學習。分組討論會提供語言的選擇,您可以選擇英文組或者是中文組。

假如您無法在現場參與課程,我們鼓勵您仍然可以報名註冊,在課後幾天我們將會通知一個效期十五天的課程錄影連結給所有註冊的學員。

 

課程時間

這個互動的線上課程我們會在Zoom平台上有四次的相遇,依照您所在的地理位置將會在下列時間舉行:

 

太平洋時間 PT

  • 6月18日,星期五,7-9 pm PT
  • 6月19日,星期六,7-9 pm PT
  • 6月25日,星期五,7-9 pm PT
  • 6月26日,星期六,7-9 pm PT

 

中國標準時間 CST

  • 6月19日,星期六,10 am-12 pm CST
  • 6月20日,星期日,10 am-12 pm CST
  • 6月26日,星期六,10 am-12 pm CST
  • 6月27日,星期日,10 am-12 pm CST

 

課程費用:CND$188

費用包含了8小時的線上課程,15天的課程錄影回顧,以及線上技術支援:

 

技術需求

這個線上課程將在免費的Zoom視頻會議軟體上進行,學員可以方便地在各種裝置上使用這個軟體。您會需要一個數位裝置,(我們推薦桌上型電腦或膝上型電腦,平板裝置或是手機也可以使用,)另外必須有順暢的網路連結和聲音功能,(我們推薦使用耳機,內建或外接式麥克風,或是發聲系統也可行。)您可以點選下面的連結來測試您的裝置連線以及實用性 zoom.us/test.  請在課前15分鐘提早上線,我們將提供必須的技術支援服務。

為方便課程回顧,我們將會錄製課程中學習的部分,可能包括問與答。錄影回放的連結會在課後寄送給學員。我們不會錄製小組分享的內容,也盡可能不去錄到個人的影音,如果您在大組中提出疑問或是分享回饋時,覺得自己不想被錄製到,請隨時告訴我們暫停錄製。除非得到當事人的同意,所有錄製到的個人影音部分我們絕不會對課程以外的人分享。 

合作夥伴

這是一個加拿大海文和中國海文的跨國合作!感謝双方的合作我們才有機會將海文精彩的課程持續地從加拿大本土推廣到全球的平台上。 建議您先下載WeChat軟體,所以您可以更方便地收到我們的課程錄影以及課程提醒。

 


 

Daily life as “For Play”

Erotic energy, or life energy, is the creative force that moves us into connection with life and with nature. It circulates within our own bodies and draws us to another. Each one of us began life through the dance of Eros between two people.

In human relationships sexual erotic energy can often be a source of misunderstanding and struggle, shame and guilt. With open hearts and deeper understanding about how erotic energy moves through our life and relationship cycles we can learn how to open to the pleasure of being fully alive in our senses, alone, and with each other.  We learn to embrace the vulnerability and revelation that accompany erotic knowledge and sharing.

In this course you will be invited to learn how to nurture and engage your own erotic energy and, if you are partnered, how to share this with your loved one. We offer insight into the connection between erotic and spiritual experiencing through body centered learning, through dialogue with one another and self reflection.

Erotic energy will ebb and flow even in the most loving couple. This could bring about suffering and misunderstanding in their relationship. We will explore how to communicate our erotic being with less shame, with honesty, and a loving heart.

Each session will focus on different topics related to Eros and Intimacy and you will be invited to continue your reflections in the time between sessions. These explorations will take place in an atmosphere of respect and every person’s choice is respected. The format will include:

  • Embodiment meditations
  • Presentations about Eros and Intimacy in Relationships
  • Experiential exercises
  • Small group sharing and reflections
  • Take home practices

 

Topics and Highlights

  • Overview on Perspectives of Erotic Living – The Seven Circles of Sexuality: Context, Sensuality, Sexualization and Objectification, Intimacy, Sexual Identity, Whole Person Sexual Health and Spirituality/Values
  • Sensuality: coming alive in the body through senses
  • Sexualization/Objectification: sex and power, sexuality post romance
  • Intimacy: eros in relationships, the desire for comfort vs the desire for novelty, the willingness to move from power to connection
  • Whole Person Sexual Health: physical/spiritual/relational, gender identity and roles, the role of values and spirituality in erotic life

 

Format

This bilingual program is offered in Mandarin and English with live translation. Participants will have opportunities to ask questions, discuss and interact with each other. We will also use breakout rooms for smaller groups discussions. Breakout rooms will be offered with language options; you can choose an English breakout room or Mandarin breakout room.

If you are unable to join one of the sessions, we encourage you to still register. Recordings of the teaching components of each session will be accessible online for 15 days. Personal sharing in breakout rooms is not recorded and participants audio and video will never be shared without consent.

 

Timing

In this interactive, online series we will meet 4 times on Zoom. Depending on where you are in the world, the sessions will take place:

 

In Pacific Time  

  • June 18, Fri. 7-9 pm PT
  • June 19, Sat. 7-9pm PT
  • June 25, Fri. 7-9 pm PT
  • June 26, Sat. 7-9pm PT

 

In China Standard Time

  • June 19, Sat. 10am-12 pm PT
  • June 20, Sun. 10am-12pm PT
  • June 26, Sat. 10am-12 pm PT
  • June 27, Sun. 10am-12 pm PT

 

Price: CAD$188 

The price includes 8 hours of live programming, time-limited access to recordings, and technical support.

 

Technical Requirements

This online program will be hosted on Zoom, a video conferencing software that is free for participants and easy to use on a variety of devices. You will need to have a device (desktop computer or laptop recommended; tablet or smartphone can work too), reliable internet connection, and sound capabilities (headset recommended; built in or external microphone or speaker systems can work too). You can test your device connection and compatibility in advance here: zoom.us/test. You will be invited to join the call up to 15 minutes early to receive technical support.

 

Recording

We will be recording the learning portions of these sessions and may record Q&ARecordings will be distributed to participants in this program following the live sessionsBreakout rooms are not recorded. We do our best not to record audio and video of participants; however, if you are uncomfortable being recorded, please ask us to pause recording while you ask a question or share feedback. Any recording material with participants will never be shared outside of this group without consent. 

 

Partnership

This program is a partnership between The Haven (Canada) and Haiwen (China). We are grateful of the co-sponsorship so we can continue to offer transformational programs through The Haven and internationally. It is recommended that you download WeChat so that you can receive the recordings and program reminders more easily.

 

 

Leaders

艾爾菲 Elfi Dillon-Shaw
海文心理諮商文憑,資深身體工作者,在個人肢體開發與全人健康教育上有20年的教學經驗,艾爾菲主要帶領的課程有:生命力的覺察,身體的工作,壓力管理,性智商,女性能量的開發,愛神的力量與親密連結,艾爾菲在1983年即加入海文,是海文的最資深導師之一。 Elfi Dillon-Shaw DipC is a massage practitioner, bodyworker and educator with 20 years’ experience fostering experiences of pleasure and well-being. She teaches programs on sexuality, body practices and stress management, including Sexual Intelligence, Stirring the Cauldron, and Eros and Intimacy (with her husband Gary Dillon). She has worked at The Haven since 1983.  
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李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee 
李文淑 企業教練碩士認證, 心理諮商文憑, 企管碩士, 藝術學士, 文學士 文淑是一位熱情, 專業, 平易近人的導師, 她擁有跨東西文化的豐富人生閱歷. 她的教學以人性為出發點, 在她熱情關懷和洞察人心的教學風格中, 文淑有效整合了她的企業背景與生活經驗, 巧妙地將教練領導, 心理諮商, 與創意啟發等不同的技巧融會應用於身心整合與全人啟發的人才培育工作中. 多年來她在加拿大, 中國大陸以及台灣教授個人成長以及領導力開發課程, 引導學員從桎梏的個人模式中, 轉化壓力為有效的資源, 蛻變出每一個人的獨特魅力與全方位的領袖風範. 文淑目前是加拿大著名的潛能開發學院 The Haven Institute 的董事以及核心導師, 同時她是樂泉諮詢顧問公司The Train Coaching & Counseling Corp. 的創辦人.   Wenshwu Lee CEC, Dip-C, MBA, BFA, BA, is passionate; as a corporate trainer and coach she is both personal and professional. She embraces life fully, and keeps enriching herself in cross-cultural environments. Her leading style is based on humanity, on which she effectively integrates business trainings with personal experiences. She applies ideas of coaching, counseling and creativity in the series of heart-brain integrated leadership development programs. She leads and assists personal growth workshops and leadership programs in China, Taiwan and Canada. In these programs, Wenshwu…
Learn more about 李文淑 Wen-Shwu Lee